Feb 2, 2015

How to get from where you are to where you want to be


Jack Canfield is one of the worlds most sought after inspirational speakers and published authors. He wrote the bestseller Chicken soup for the soul series. His recent book is called The success principles - how to get from where you are to where you want to be, and this book has been hailed as the new success classic. I really like his advices on how to find success (based on an article from PositivelyPositive.) Especially that we´re all born with a life purpose, and that identifying, acknowledging and honoring this purpose is truly important for success. Stay tuned into yourself is another favourite.

1. Take No Less Than 100% Responsibility for Your Life

One of the greatest myths that is pervasive in our culture today is that you are entitled to a great life and that somehow, somewhere, someone is responsible for filling our lives with continual happiness, exciting career options, nurturing family time, and blissful personal relationships simply because we exist. But the real truth is that there is only one person responsible for the quality of the life you live. That person is you. Everything about you is a result of your doing or not doing. Income. Debt. Relationships. Health. Fitness level. Attitudes and behaviors.

2. Be Clear Why You’re Here

I believe each of us is born with a life purpose. Identifying, acknowledging, and honoring this purpose is perhaps the most important action successful people take. They take the time to understand what they’re here to do, and then they pursue that with passion and enthusiasm. If you don’t know what you’re supposed to be doing, then just tune into the signals around you. Don’t forget to stay tuned into yourself.

3. Decide What You Want

People are physically tired, spiritually drained, and far from where they’d like to be. Why? Because they haven’t clearly mapped out what they want and then taken the steps to get there. Rather than identifying specific goals, milestones, and dreams they go through the motions day in and day out, tackling unimportant tasks. They end up going in circles and wasting lots of energy. In the meanwhile, they grow increasingly uninspired and out of touch with their authentic selves. This, of course, sets anyone up to living a life out of balance. As soon as you commit to a big dream and really go after it you’ll start attracting the people, resources, and opportunities you need into your life to make your dream come true.

4. Believe It Is Possible

Scientists used to believe that humans responded to information flowing into the brain from the outside world. But today, they’re learning that, instead, we respond to what the brain, based on previous experience, expects to happen next. In fact, the mind is such a powerful instrument that it can deliver, literally, everything you want. But you have to believe that what you want is possible.

5. Believe in Yourself

If you are going to be successful in creating the life of your dreams, you have to believe that you are capable of making it happen. Whether you call it self-esteem, self-confidence, or self-assurance, it is a deep-seated belief that you have what it takes—the abilities, inner resources, talents, and skills—to create your desired results. Stumbling blocks become just that—little hills to hop over.

6. Become an Inverse Paranoid

This one is straightforward: Imagine how much easier it would be to succeed in life if you were constantly expecting the world to support you and bring you opportunity. Successful people do just that.

7. Unleash the Power of Goal Setting

Experts on the science of success know the brain is a goal-seeking organism. Whatever goal you give to your subconscious mind, it will work day and night to achieve. To engage your subconscious mind, a goal has to be measurable. When there aren’t any criteria for measurement, it is simply something you want, a wish, a preference, or a good idea. Bear in mind that you have to be willing to change your behavior if you want a different outcome. You have to be willing to take the risks necessary to get what you want. So if you need just one thing to do differently today than you did yesterday, make it this: Commit to taking 100% responsibility for every aspect of your life. Decide to make changes, one step at a time. Once you start the process, you’ll discover it is much easier to get what you want by taking control of your thoughts, your visualizations, and your actions!


This was originally published on Beautifulosophy 2012

{Image from Pinterest via crushculdesac.tumblr.com 
Text source Positively Positive}

6 comments:

  1. Jack Canfield is king! Härligt med en liten summering, kan behövas så här på måndagsmorgonen! Återkommer till dig på mailen... Kram Helena

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  2. Darling,
    Vilken ljuvlig bild. Exakt så citycool vill jag va.
    Och tack för urfina bilder i förra inlägget, så härligt att få en liten glimpse av ert hem. Jag har ju smygbörjat med hyacint. Idag blir det lite silverkulor...
    KRAM

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  3. Love your Monday posts so much! Always very inspiring!

    Hope you had a wonderful weekend and am wishing you a great day!

    xxx

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  4. As always...your Monday posts are fantastic and so inspirational. I so belivev in all of the above. I know that my current work and colleagues have helped and changed a lot that I did not see before.

    xx

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  5. Hi there, I just discovered your blog and will be following you. I particularly loved this post, especially the message about becoming an Inverse Paranoid. I've been thinking about this idea a lot lately. I think most of us dwell a lot on our problems, but it would be wonderful if we could give as much attention to imagining what goods things could be just around the corner. This is something I am going to try to do more of this year. thanks for this great post. xx Nancy (Stonecrop Sister)

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind comment Nancy!
      Love, Caroline

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